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Western Star Signs
Aries is often brusque and lacking in tact and diplomacy. Cancer feels that Aries should be more considerate of others' feelings. Also, Aries encourages independent thinking and action, and feels very uncomfortable around people that cling too tenaciously. Cancer, on the other hand, needs a lot of emotional support and encouragement, and Cancer feels that everyone needs "mothering".
Aries is likely to periodically trample on Cancer's feelings, and Cancer can easily fall into the role of being a helping friend to Aries, who takes Cancer's help and assistance for granted. Aries' need for independence often conflicts with Cancer's needs for warmth and camaraderie.
Aries seems self-centred, impersonal, and indifferent to Cancer at times. Aries can learn compassion from Cancer, and Cancer can learn to be more independent, but it is likely that you will periodically feel frustrated and at odds with each other.
You both tend to be active, dynamic, mobile and assertive. Each one of you is special and leads something of a charmed life. Both Aries and Cancer are usually positive, competitive, flamboyant, life affirming people. Enjoy some "naps" together.
You both like to start things and to take the initiative. You're each restless, energetic, outgoing, opportunistic and ambitious. Probably, you're both more busy than bored. Cancer may need for Aries to cool it from time to time.
Though Cancer and Aries is not the ideal match in terms of elements, you have strong karmic connections with Arians born between 21 March and 30 March.
Cancer is not necessarily the most direct individual. Security is something Cancer is always aware of. Usually it's a top priority. Cancer is definitely strong and protective of turf.
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Chinese Star Signs
Two Oxen make a force to be reckoned with. They are powerful and packed with stamina and never quit. As lovers they may not have the fire other couples have, but they will be very close and the brute strength of their personalities will provide long lasting fireworks. Their overall compatibility rating is 80%.
The Chinese Astrological Ox is neither slow witted nor clumsy. These powerful, dependable beings were meant to lead. While their approach to fulfilling a task may be slow and methodical, they are capable of great things and never lose sight of their goals. Their stamina is endless and they are detail conscious. They believe in getting things right the first time.
To outsiders Oxen may seem to be too serious and unable to "let their hair down." Being introverts, these are easy assumptions to make about Oxen. Also they are very independent and appear to have no regard for what others think of them. However, hidden behind that distant air shown to the world, is a being that feels pain, loneliness and regret that they do not connect well with others.
The Oxen's comforts and delights are derived from friends and family and work well done. As a friend, lover or family member the Ox makes a reliable and protective ally who is always tender and affectionate.
When away from the family and out in the world the Ox can be stubborn and dogmatic. They are not ones to back down or take much guff from anyone.
The Ox is a good source of honest advice.
The Ox needs to try to be less quick to judge others. When they see the value of those who have qualities different than their own they are well on their way to a warmer social life.
Note that Chinese star signs are determined by your exact date of birth, and not just your birth year. For more information, read about the Chinese Zodiac »