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Western Star Signs
You two are very different! Scorpio becomes intensely involved emotionally to particular people and places. Scorpio bonds deeply and becomes very attached to people. Gemini, by contrast, takes life in a lighter vein and usually does not become as emotionally involved and attached to things as Scorpio. Scorpio may feel that Gemini is superficial, evasive, childish, and not serious enough, while Gemini may feel that Scorpio is too heavy, intense, and demanding.
Scorpio thrives on intensive, direct experiences and is best suited to a life style that involves direct, non-vicarious, non-intellectual activities of forceful, instinctive, or natural kind, preferably using one's hands (examples: surgery, deep sea diving, most competitive athletic sports, pottery, etc.) while Gemini's approach is more cerebral, less focused and intensive, and more varied. You may not understand or appreciate each other at times.
Gemini can introduce you to a brighter and more easy-going lifestyle. And you need it! Gemini is upbeat, and loves humour and fun. You probably need the humour that is on offer. With the right focus, you two could have business and financial success, but this isn't usually a strong enough bond to keep a relationship going.
At times, Scorpio may feel like Gemini has not one, but at least two different personalities. In the relationship between Gemini and Scorpio adjustment is key. You both need to give more than you get. This association requires extra sensitivity. At first, you both may be somewhat irritated about each other. In time, with work, the very thing that caused the irritation may lead to personal fulfillment. You can't force growth in this alliance - go along with the changes. To beat the odds, accept your mutual challenge and change your routines.
Gemini needs open lines of communication. The best friends for Gemini are the ones who appreciate Gemini's sense of humor. Scorpio has proven the ability to hold on. Scorpio's staying power is second to none. Now Scorpio needs to learn to let go. Every day Scorpio needs to find something to sell, give away, throw out or burn. If Scorpio wants to get the most out of life, Scorpio needs to let go of old stuff, literally, figuratively, and most of all, psychologically.
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Chinese Star Signs
The Ox and the Monkey are so different that clashes are inevitable. If they survive the skirmishes they may come to understand each other well enough to make good lovers. Their overall compatibility rating is 40%.
The Chinese Astrological Ox is neither slow witted nor clumsy. These powerful, dependable beings were meant to lead. While their approach to fulfilling a task may be slow and methodical, they are capable of great things and never lose sight of their goals. Their stamina is endless and they are detail conscious. They believe in getting things right the first time.
To outsiders Oxen may seem to be too serious and unable to "let their hair down." Being introverts, these are easy assumptions to make about Oxen. Also they are very independent and appear to have no regard for what others think of them. However, hidden behind that distant air shown to the world, is a being that feels pain, loneliness and regret that they do not connect well with others.
The Oxen's comforts and delights are derived from friends and family and work well done. As a friend, lover or family member the Ox makes a reliable and protective ally who is always tender and affectionate.
When away from the family and out in the world the Ox can be stubborn and dogmatic. They are not ones to back down or take much guff from anyone.
The Ox is a good source of honest advice.
The Ox needs to try to be less quick to judge others. When they see the value of those who have qualities different than their own they are well on their way to a warmer social life.
Note that Chinese star signs are determined by your exact date of birth, and not just your birth year. For more information, read about the Chinese Zodiac »