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Western Star Signs
You are both wilful and passionate people, with a strong desire to live intensely and directly, and you love this about each other. There is a lot of fire in your relationship and you are likely to fight ferociously sometimes.
Aries, however, can release anger and emotions and then forget about it, while Scorpio nurses grudges and resentments, and may hold on to the wounds that Aries unthinkingly inflicts. Also, Aries is more direct and straightforward, while Scorpio is often quiet, and somewhat secretive or indirect, which puts Aries off sometimes.
In the relationship between Aries and Scorpio adjustment is key. You both need to give more than you get. This association requires extra sensitivity. At first, you both may be somewhat irritated about each other. In time, with work, the very thing that caused the irritation may lead to personal fulfillment. You can't force growth in this alliance - go along with the changes. To beat the odds, change your routines.
You will be at loggerheads over life perspectives too, because you are both very determined and forceful in your views. You'll clash intensely. These bouts of rage, when you both try to prove your superiority over the other, will, however, be nicely relieved by kiss and make up sessions. You could well find yourselves infuriating each other just to get to that exciting bedroom aftermath!
Scorpio prefers deep commitment, deep conversation and deep thoughts. If Scorpio can't tell it like it is, Scorpio prefers to keep quiet. It should be mentioned that Scorpio has quite a few secrets. Scorpio has forgiveness issues that tend to make personal relationships challenging.
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Chinese Star Signs
The Ox and the Monkey are so different that clashes are inevitable. If they survive the skirmishes they may come to understand each other well enough to make good lovers. Their overall compatibility rating is 40%.
The Chinese Astrological Ox is neither slow witted nor clumsy. These powerful, dependable beings were meant to lead. While their approach to fulfilling a task may be slow and methodical, they are capable of great things and never lose sight of their goals. Their stamina is endless and they are detail conscious. They believe in getting things right the first time.
To outsiders Oxen may seem to be too serious and unable to "let their hair down." Being introverts, these are easy assumptions to make about Oxen. Also they are very independent and appear to have no regard for what others think of them. However, hidden behind that distant air shown to the world, is a being that feels pain, loneliness and regret that they do not connect well with others.
The Oxen's comforts and delights are derived from friends and family and work well done. As a friend, lover or family member the Ox makes a reliable and protective ally who is always tender and affectionate.
When away from the family and out in the world the Ox can be stubborn and dogmatic. They are not ones to back down or take much guff from anyone.
The Ox is a good source of honest advice.
The Ox needs to try to be less quick to judge others. When they see the value of those who have qualities different than their own they are well on their way to a warmer social life.
Note that Chinese star signs are determined by your exact date of birth, and not just your birth year. For more information, read about the Chinese Zodiac »